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jf:tjdf ;'xfu/ftsf] klg cfkm\g} ljz]iftf 5 . x/]s k|f0fLsf leGgfleGg} vfnsf ?k/+u eP h:t} dfgj hLjgdf klg y/L–y/L hft hflt wd{, ;+:s[ltsdf tlng ePsf cf–cfkm\g} ljrf/ 5g\ . oL ;a} ;dfh / dfgjsf ljjfxnfO{ klg cfkm\g} lsl;dn] x]g{] u/]sf 5g\ . x/]s dfgjn] cfkm\gf y'k|} /ftx¿ PsfGtdf ljtfPsf x'G5g\ . PSnf] eP/ /ft s6fPsf x'G5g\ . o:t} ubf{ pgLx¿ jo:s egf}+ of of}g cj:yfdf k|j]z ub{5g\ . x/]sn] cfkm\gf] hLjg;fyLsf] vf]hL ug{ yfN5g\ . o:t} vf]hL tnf;L ubf{ ub}{ Ps lbg crfgs bfDkTo hLjgdf aflwg afWo x'G5g\ . jf:tjdf Tof] vj/ Psflt/ v'zLdf kl/0ft x'G5 eg] csf]{lt/ c+F;'df alnbfg yfN5 . pm cfkm}nfO{ yfxf x'b}g . cfkm} ljjfx ePsf] cyf{t\ pm cfkm} bfDkTo hLjgdf a+lwPsf] . v'zL dgfpg], 3/sf 7"nf j8fx? cfkm\g} no / tfndf x+;v]n ul//fv]sf x'G5g\ . gof+ b'nxf gof+ b'nxL cfPsf]df gfrufg x'G5 . t/ s] yfxf ptf b'nxf b'nxLsf] ef]lnsf nflu cfpg] ;d:ofaf/] .

b'nxLsf cf+vfdf /f]bg dfq b]lvG5 . xf+;f] b]Vg r6sLn] r6s b]vfPsf] 7fpFdf k'Ug' kg]{ x'G5 . b'nxLsf gogaf6 aUg] tLg sGb/fx¿ lg/Gt/ cfkm\gf] dfOtL3/ gk'u'~h]n;Dd aGb gx'g] cj:yfdf k'U5g\ . slxn} b]vf–b]v gePsf s]6fs]6L Psf;L b'nfxf b'nxLdf kl/0ft x'+bf jf:tjdf Ps lsl;dsf] cfZro{ klg nfUg ;S5 . t/ xfd|f] ;dfhsf] ;a}eGbf dxTjk"0f{ kIf g} ljjfx xf] . To;}n] ubf{ klg xfdLn] k/Dk/fnfO{ sfod /fVg / wd{;+:s[ltnfO{ ;+:d/0f ug{sf lglDt klg o;/L ljjfx ug'{ plrt x'G5 . ca b'nfxf b'nxL 3/df leqfP klg ;a} cf–cfkm\gf sfddf nfU5g\ . b'nfxf b'nxLnfO{ gof+ lj5\of}gf, 5'§} sf]7f tof/L kf/]/ 5f]l8 lbG5g\ . oxL xf] bfDkTo hLjgsf] klxnf] /ft h'g /ftnfO{ ;'xfu/ft elgG5 . ljjfx h'g;'s} lsl;dsf] eP klg ljjfx cl3 of}g ;Dks{ ePsf] 5}g eg] ;'xfu/ftsf] dxTj 7"nf] x'G5 .

;'xfu/ft s;/L dgfO{G5 < of] ljifodf klg cf–cfkm\g} egfO{x¿ 5g\ . o;nfO{ cu||]hLdf (Bridal Night) elgG5 . of] af/Daf/ s;nfO{ klg k|fKt x'+b}g . jf:tjdf of] /ft ljz]if pNn]vgLo 5 lsgls Ps k'?if / Ps :qL kl/lrt of ckl/lrtn] cfkm"nfO{ Pscsf{sf hLjge/sf nflu ;dk{0f ub{5g\ . oxL /ft xf] ;'xfu/ft x/]s o'js o'jtLdf ljjfxsf] pd]/ k'lu;s]kl5 ljjfxeGbf w]/} lbg cl3b]lvg} cfkm\gf] ;'xfu/ftsf] ;'dw'/ sNkgf x'G5 . jf:tjdf b'nfxfn] s] ug'{ kg]{ / b'nxLn] s] ug'{ kg]{ eGg] s'/f b'j} cf–cfkm\gf :yfgaf6 Tof] /ftsf] ;f]rfO{df x'G5g\ t/ ;'xfu/ftnfO{ s;/L ;kmn u/fpg eGg] s'/f b'j} o'jfo'jtLnfO{ yfxf x'+b}g . jf:tjdf ;'xfu/ftnfO{ o:tf] clj:d/0fLo / ;'dw'/ agfpg ;Sg' k5{, h;n] ubf{ Tof] /ftsf] ;Demgfdf kl5 a"9f–a"9L eOGh]n;Dd klg klt kTgL /f]dfl~rt x'g ;Sg' . oyfy{df Tof] g} ;'xfu/ft xf] . o:tf s'/fdf sltdf t gsf/fTds ;f]rfOx¿ klg a9\g] u/]sf kfOG5 t/ To:tf s'/fn] ubf{ Ps} /ftaf6 tL bfDkTo hf]8Ldf lj5f]8 klg x'g a]/ nfUb}g .

xfd|f] ;dfhdf ;fy} ljZjsf clwsf+z ;dfhdf k'?ifn] :qLnfO{ ljjfx u/]/ cfkm\gf] 3/df leq\ofpg] kl/kf6L 5 . s'g} ;dfhdf k'?ifnfO{ :qLn] cfkm\gf] 3/df leq\ofpg] klg rng kfOG5 . b'nfxfn] b'nxLnfO{ leq\ofpg] / ;fy} k'?ifsf] bf+hf]df :qL a9L nHhfn' klg x'gfn] ;'xfu/ft ;kmn kfg{df b'nfxfsf] e"ldsf a9L dxTjk"0f{ x'G5 .

;'xfu/ftnfO{ w]/}h;f] dflg;x¿n] ;Def]usf] klxnf] /ft dfg]sf 5g\ . t/ o;/L ;'xfu/ftnfO{ s]jn sfd's b[li6sf]0fn] u|x0f u/]/ ;Def]udf dfq ;Lldt /fVg' ;'xfu/ftsf] b'?kof]u ug'{ xf] . ;f+Rr} eGg] xf] eg] ;'xfu/ft sfd's ldngsf] klxnf] /ft geO{ efj's / dw'/ ldngsf] klxnf] /ft xf] . sltko b'nfxf–b'nxLsf nflu ;'xfu/ft g} klxnf] PsfGt If0f x'G5 . To;}n] klxnf]k6s k|fKt PsfGttfsf] dw'/ cj;/nfO{ v]/ hfg glbg' b'j}n] lgs} a'l4 k'¥ofpg' kb{5 .

c+u|]hL efif+sf] First impression is the last impression eGg] egfO{n] ;'xfu/ftdf cToGt 7"nf] dxTj /fVb5 lsgls ;'xfu/ftsf] cj;/df b'nfxf b'nxLn] Psn] csf]{nfO{ /fd|f] k|efj ug{ ;s]gg\ eg] ef]ln kl;{ cfpg] lbgx¿ pgLx¿sf nflu ;'vb\ x'g sl7g kb{5 . To;}n] Tof] /ft Psn] csf{sf] dgdf hlt k|]d / ljZjf; hufpg ;Sof], Tolt pgLx¿sf] efjL hLjg ;'vdo x'g hfG5 . To;}n] ;'xfu/ftnfO{ bfDkTo hLjgsf] kljq dlGb/sf] d+undo lznfGof; eGg ;lsG5 . ;'xfu/ft cl3 ;DkGg ePsf ;Dk"0f{ j}jflxs /Llt l/jfhx¿ ;a}sf ;fd' k"/f ul/Psf] cf}krfl/stf x'g elg ;'xfu/ftsf] If0fdf b'nfxf–b'nxL dfq eP/ cfbfg–k|bfg u/]sf ljZjf; / efj'stfx¿ cd/ cflTdotf x'g\ . cfkm\gf] Jojxf/ / af]nL argn] csf{sf] dgdf 7]; gnfuf];\ eGg] k|of;df k|To]s JolQm ;+w} ;r]t /xg' k5{ eGg] ;'xfu/ft h:tf] cToGt efj's Pj+ ;+j]bgzLn If0fdf t Tof] ;r]tgf slt cfjZos xf]nf < ;a}n] ;lhn} cg'dfg ug{ ;Sg] s'/f xf] .

;'xfu/ft b'nfxf–b'nxL b'j}sf nflu eP tfklg gf}nf] jftfj/0f, gf/L ;'en nHhf / ;+sf]r cflb sf/0fn] b'nxL ;lqmo x'g ;lSbg . To;}n] o; If0fdf b'nfxfsf] ;lqmotf g} dxTjk"0f{ x'G5 . b'nfxfnfO{ ;'xfu/ftdf s'g k|;+uaf6 s;/L b'nxL;Fu s'/fsfgL z'¿ ug]{ eGg] c;lhnf] kg{ ;Sb5 . sf]xL b'nxLn]g} klxnf s'/fsfgL z'¿ u5]{ ls eGg] cfzf ub{5g\ t/ s'g} k|]d ljjfx afx]s cGo cj:yfdf b'nxLaf6 o:tf] ck]Iff ug'{ xfd|f] h:tf] ;dfhdf Joy{ h:t} x'G5 . To;}n] b'nfxf g} ;'xfu/ftdf ;j{k|yd cu|;/ x'g' kb{5 .

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